If 2016 felt like the year you should forget then you are in
the right place right now.
If you think that 2016 was one of those erasable years then
you are in the right place right now.
If you think that 2016 was one of those years you could do
all over again then you are in the right place right now.
You are in the right place now because you are at rock
bottom. And as they say “no where to go but up”. I don’t want to burst your
bubble right away but that depends if you can only go up. Worse thing is you
could still go lower than where you ended in 2016. Nothing in this world is
permanent we all know that. We aren’t even sure of what happens after death.
If you really want to change this 2017, you have to start by changing your mentality right away. But changing the mentality isn’t enough
acting and doing that mentality right away would do the trick. Never wait for
tomorrow to start. Don’t wait until your last Christmas party on the second
week of January for you to start. Don’t wait for all the chocolates and sweets
at home to finish before you start dieting. Start right away! Start Asap! No
ifs, no buts!
The most important thing to start this year is to be honest.
Be honest to yourself! Be honest on every aspect of your life. This is so
simple but so hard to do. Be honest and do something about it. If you want to
lose weight be honest to your self and accept that you are overweight. If you
have a misunderstanding within your family, then tell them what your problem
with them is. If you have problems with your friends then tell them. The most
important thing is to be honest to your feelings. There’s nothing worse than
lying to yourself and having that heavy feeling inside you. Let that feeling
out. Tell him/her right away how you feel. If you don’t like your partner
anymore and think and feel that your relationship won’t go anywhere then tell
him/her. Do not prolong the agony you are carrying by getting afraid to hurt
other people’s feelings. If they get hurt for what you have to say then they get hurt! If it is the way, then it is the way.
On the other hand, if you have feelings for someone don’t
wait for the right the time. the right time is now. Do something about that
feeling. Tell, him/her! Court him/her! Give him/her flowers chocolates or
whatever makes him/her happy! If they accept it then good for you. If he/she doesn’t
accept it, doesn’t mean you failed at all. You didn’t fail your self. You just
did fine because what did I say earlier? Being honest is the first thing you
should do and you won already by doing so. That’s the risk of being honest
though. Not all people will accept your honesty and that’s normal! If you get
broken and fail in what you want, then accept it. Because at the end of the
day, it’s better to fail by being honest to yourself and doing everything you
can than suffer the pain of forever asking yourself “what if”.
Do It For Yourself!
