Start the Year by Being Honest

If 2016 felt like the year you should forget then you are in the right place right now.

If you think that 2016 was one of those erasable years then you are in the right place right now.

If you think that 2016 was one of those years you could do all over again then you are in the right place right now.

You are in the right place now because you are at rock bottom. And as they say “no where to go but up”. I don’t want to burst your bubble right away but that depends if you can only go up. Worse thing is you could still go lower than where you ended in 2016. Nothing in this world is permanent we all know that. We aren’t even sure of what happens after death.

If you really want to change this 2017, you have to start by changing your mentality right away. But changing the mentality isn’t enough acting and doing that mentality right away would do the trick. Never wait for tomorrow to start. Don’t wait until your last Christmas party on the second week of January for you to start. Don’t wait for all the chocolates and sweets at home to finish before you start dieting. Start right away! Start Asap! No ifs, no buts!

The most important thing to start this year is to be honest. Be honest to yourself! Be honest on every aspect of your life. This is so simple but so hard to do. Be honest and do something about it. If you want to lose weight be honest to your self and accept that you are overweight. If you have a misunderstanding within your family, then tell them what your problem with them is. If you have problems with your friends then tell them. The most important thing is to be honest to your feelings. There’s nothing worse than lying to yourself and having that heavy feeling inside you. Let that feeling out. Tell him/her right away how you feel. If you don’t like your partner anymore and think and feel that your relationship won’t go anywhere then tell him/her. Do not prolong the agony you are carrying by getting afraid to hurt other people’s feelings. If they get hurt for what you have to say then they get hurt! If it is the way, then it is the way. 

On the other hand, if you have feelings for someone don’t wait for the right the time. the right time is now. Do something about that feeling. Tell, him/her! Court him/her! Give him/her flowers chocolates or whatever makes him/her happy! If they accept it then good for you. If he/she doesn’t accept it, doesn’t mean you failed at all. You didn’t fail your self. You just did fine because what did I say earlier? Being honest is the first thing you should do and you won already by doing so. That’s the risk of being honest though. Not all people will accept your honesty and that’s normal! If you get broken and fail in what you want, then accept it. Because at the end of the day, it’s better to fail by being honest to yourself and doing everything you can than suffer the pain of forever asking yourself “what if”. 

Do It For Yourself!